Okay so most of us know how to ... alone and probably do so quite often when the need arises, but we can also masturbate as a couple to add a little variety to our sexual activities

Okay so most of us know how to masturbate alone and probably do so quite often when the need arises, but we can also use
masturbation as a couple to add a little variety to our sexual smorgasbord and to spice things up a bit.

Oh yeah, seeing my lover on his knees on the bed stroking his shaft with the look of exquisite pleasure on his face is one of the most
erotic images for me, and for many men, seeing their woman touch herself and bring herself to ecstasy is extremely arousing.

So masturbating for each other can be a great addition to our sexual repertoire. No only is it stimulating, but it is also a magnificent way
for us to learn how to touch our lover. We can observe where, when and how they touch themselves, taking note of intensity and speed
and we can learn how to satisfy them better by adopting their methods when we masturbate them.

For example: we can learn does our lover like her clitoris stimulated through the hood or does she need it exposed or we can learn does
our lover like to be stroked hard or gentle.

We can take turns being the voyeur and the exhibitionist. If one partner enjoys mutual masturbation and the other feels a little shy, then
you could try making a game out of it where the not so shy one can try to catch the shy one without their knowing and spy on them
while they masturbate. This way the shy one can be uninhibited and the not so shy one can get their arousal. You could have the
ending be that you both climax alone during the act of the game or you could set it up so it ends with intercourse.

As you practice masturbating for each other it will help bring down inhibitions and you can grow closer together.

Masturbating for each other can be used as an alternative to intercourse if we are not in the mood or it can be a part of foreplay. It is a
great form of sex if we are in a new relationship and have not moved full steam ahead yet. It can also be used if one partner is too tired
for intercourse, and yet wants to participate in satisfying their partner.

We can also masturbate each other. Taking what we have learned by observing our partner and applying it. We can take turns with all
the attention focused on one partner at a time until they climax or it can be simultaneous. It can be very arousing to watch our partner
stimulate us manually as we stimulate them, as both partners can benefit from viewing and being viewed. We can be the voyeur and the
exhibitionist at the same time.

We can add toys to the scenario and try a variety of different positions and locations as well. Perhaps a camera or video camera would
be fun.

Ahhh, the possibilities are immense. Be creative, adventurous and playful.

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